Darren LaCroix is a fantastic professional speaker! If I didn't watch the video clip that it was taken about 20 years ago, I would probably not know that when he started as a speaker, he was just like us, not that competent and very nervous while on stage.
If you never heard about Darren before, he is the 2001 World Champion of Public Speaking. After he graduated from college, he started his own Subway to pay off his debt. However, he was in vain. According to him, he doubled the debt. One day while he was driving to work, he heard the host of the radio said, "
What would you dare to dream, if you know you wouldn't fail?" He thought he wanted to be a comedian. With no support from his family and friends, he took his first step by going to a local comedy club. He went on stage to entertain the audience, but he only got one laugh that night, and it was by accident.
He didn't give up after his first attempt. He continued to seek out for professional comedians and asked for advice. After 11 successive years of hard work, he won the World Championship. He believes that no one can become great alone. If you want to be the best in your profession, then you should seek out to people who are the best of it. They have a
higher perspective, and they know how to guide you. Sometimes, when we keep practicing our own speech, it's possible that we are not in the right track, and if we keep practicing, it's not going to make the speech better, lucky if not worse.
Oftentimes, we are so sure that we are doing the right thing, and we keep doing it. We won't even recognize where it went wrong. So, how exactly to achieve great?
- Talk to a person who excels in the profession
- Do a research, read a book
- Observe other people how they do
During the process, failure is inevitable. Thus, learn to embrace it, and move on.
If you want to be the best, then go to people who are the best. Get the thoughts (advice) from them, and turn thoughts into habits. "
Habits are like tram track. It's hard to do, but once you do, it'll take you to anywhere you want." Keep asking yourself this: "
Will I be better tomorrow because of what I do today?" If not, what could have been done differently?
Mindset is also the crux of whether you'll be able to reach your dream or not. Darren told us about two brilliant MIT students. Both of them were co-op students of a company. The company were facing finial struggles when the students started working there. The students were asked to stand at the end of a factory line and separate the defects from the good one. The first student couldn't stand the job after a couple of days; the second student, however, asked the company's permission to take home the defects, and he studied how to make an improvement. Same job, but different people see it differently. The second student had just found himself a great opportunity to learn.
After I went to this event, I have been thinking about what's my dream and how I can take my next step. I'm still looking out for my passion. Before I find it, I'll keep learning and create opportunities along the way. : )